Yep. That's me. I know I'm not alone. There are too many of us for whom the unbridled optimism, excitement and promise of ivf has long since worn off. We're the ones no one embarking on ivf for the first time likes to think about. We are the anomalies. Well, not really, but you wouldn't know it because long term ivf failure seems to be a taboo topic. Perhaps we are just meant to fade away, forget about it and concentrate on something else.

So what do we do?

Do we keep going? (Who knows. Unlikely, but maybe....)

Can we let go, give up on the dream we have made the focus of our lives for so long? (Right now it seems impossible to contemplate....)

For people like us the "promise" of ivf turned out to be as empty as our uteruses.

I, for one, refuse to go away just yet. How about you?