Thanks Terry and Lilydust

I have no idea what comes next Minnie.

We have spent $70,000 out of pocket so far, with nothing more than a chemical or two to show for it. It seems stupid to keep going iykwim. Just throwing good money after bad. Plus it's hard physically. This last cycle was particularly difficult. I was on so many drugs. I struggled with it. Which would have been fine if I had got a result but to go through it all for nothing...

I don't think people who haven't been through it can really appreciate how hard it is.

I can't even begin to explain the emotional toll. IVF is pretty much the end of the road when it comes to assisted conception. When it doesn't work, what then??

Juniper - it is so enormous to contemplate isnt it?