I know a few of you from previous transfers hope you don't mind me joining in. Had my transfer yesterday and have been sitting at home taking easy ever since.
I'll try to catch up with everyone soon but just wanted to also wish Trublue luck for tomorrow
Sorry, a bit short on time recently... report writing time at work!
Just a quick good luck to True... try to stay positive!
Congrats Loop on the tractor... I'm sure it will be your time soon.
Mum-2-Be - thanks for making the list... my BT has changed to the 15th due to yesterdays meds.
Terry - welcome and good luck
All other BT's approaching very quickly good luck to you!
AFM - my progesterone scare still has me reeling a bit. Apparently mine was 26 and they like to have it over 30, so I don't know what to think about this. They also gave me a pregnyl shot, which is now a puffy red and itchy bump where the needle went in (about the size of a 50c piece). Still no signs at all. BBs not so sore any more and cramps have kind of died off, so I'm not looking very positive about this round. At least we have 3 frozen blastocysts so it shouldn't be too long until we can go for a FET.
Hey, sorry guys, just thought of a question I was meaning to ask you.
I've just been changed to progesterone pessaries (aren't they gross!) and I have noticed, that even though I am lying down for about an hour after putting them in (my dose is 2 at a time), they still leak (a lot) when I get up. Is this normal? I have to go to the bathroom straight away when I stand up and then... I don't know, it's just kind of, everywhere... Please tell me this is normal and I'm getting the right dose now!
Thanks!
Hi MiniMe
This is my first time with the pessaries too and yeah, they are a bit leaky. I take mine when I go to bed so it's not too bad -do you have to take morning ones as well? - They are a lot less messy than the crinone though
Loops - sorry to hear about your test - Like mum2be said, hopefully less stress will help next time
Trueblue - all is crossed!
Lairdoz - Hope you weren't too uncomfortable, and even more I hope it sticks!
AFM - still no symptoms. I'd like to think the spotting was implantation, but I think it was just a rough transfer. You're right lairdoz -it is a 5 day blastie so I guess 9 days is time.
Has anyone here had a +ve with no symptoms?
trueblue ~ I'm so waiting to hear good news today!!
Kass ~ I was wondering the same thing. I had a pg last round (although lost after a few weeks) and the only thing I felt in the TWW was a pain in the middle of the night one night that lasted about 10 minutes. But no other symptoms. In any event, stay positive !!
Minime ~ I have to use 2 per day (1 am and 1 pm). I don't get any leaking during the night, however in the morning when I go to the loo there is a little left. When I put the am one in, I also use a panty liner as some does slowly leak out during the day (and that's only with 1 put in). If your putting 2 in, I would imagine more would come out... but not sure - try not to worry about it though!! Now we are BT buddies!!
Terry ~ welcome back! Hope all goes well for you!! Let me know when your BT is so I can put it on the list.
Lairdoz ~ hope your feeling better soon! Hopefully it is one of the stories you will tell at the 21st birthday party!!
Airline ~ Hope all is going well for you!!
AFM ~ just cruising! going through positive spells and then negative spells!! More positive ones though! No change to symptoms - bbs (or more the right one!) are a little tender (but that may be because I keep feeling them to see if they are sore yet !!) Otherwise I feel fine! Just marking time till Tuesday morning!! DH and I will do a HPT that morning, so we can find out before the BT (we always do things together and finding out whether we are pregnant shouldn't be any different!).
BT List:
trueblue ~ 10 June 2010
Kass ~ 11 June 2010
Minime ~ 15 June 2010
Mum2be ~ 15 June 2010
Ahurani ~ ???
Airline ~ 18 June 2010 (HPT on 16th or 17th!!)
Lairdoz ~ 21 June 2010
Terry ~ ???
thanks everyone so much for all your support but i will be leaving you all now until next tww as I started bleeding today at about lunch time so I didn't need to wait for the results called the nurse and she's been chasing the results all day so when she calls in the morning with the results then she'll be able to discuss the game plan for the next round which is pretty much straight away i think
Am shattered and have had a few good cry's.. I hope to not have to see any of you back in the ttc threads goodluck girls and thank you all so much again
Kass so sorry to hear about your result your so right though your time will come
Airline I hope that you thinking it could go either way is a postive thing for you. I too think I might test next weekend with DH and no wait till my Tuesday BT. Enjoy those lamb shanks
AFM been keeping busy this weekend which is a good thing. Going out with friends tonight then movies tomorrow with DH. Really haven't had any symptoms which is ok cause every other cycle I seem to imagine things happening. I did have some mild cramping really low down on the left side yesterday and my breasts are difinately feeling quite heavy I've put that down to all the medication
well girls..if anyone happens to pop in, i need to vent. i had a bad bad night at work. i've woken up with more spots on my nose so look like i feel which is rubbish. feel very low, maybe pmt??
i have this reoccurring situation at work that all the people that i work alongside find difficult to understand and deal with professionally sometimes, inc myself, but i hold a higher position so have to set example. as my name implies i work for an airline. virtually every flight and i am not exaggerating in any way shape or form because often there's more than one per flight, we have a grandmother who is from another country, generally speaks no english who requires assistance as she is taking back to the home country an infant. the scenario is the same and repeated day after day, the parents are students here, they know it's free to have a baby (aren't they the lucky ones - while the rest of us pay through the nose) and then they say (cos we have asked in a friendly way, 'how can you send your little one away???') 'oh it is too much to study and work and look after the baby.'!!!!!!!! some of these little ones are only 8 weeks old!!!!!!!!!! Even those members of staff I work alongside who are also from this country say to us it's terrible and they are being honest not just playing lip service (trust me the discussion about it happening occurs all the time) they say it's not cultural (normally the whole family helps bring them up INC. the parents) or religious.
sooo for someone in my position who is so desperate to carry, hold and raise my own child and trying to find money to pay for all that and getting to that point in the first place...this is soo difficult to watch play out every night.
ok vent over sorry everyone,but the last 24 hours have been the 2ww slapping me in the face.
Hey airline...
That really sucks. Who would have a child if they couldn't be bothered raising them in the most critical time of their development? I feel for you, having to be exposed to this, especially considering your circumstances. If I had an 8 week old child, I would have great difficulty letting him/her out of my sight even for a minute. It just doesn't make sense.
At the moment, I am feeling really stupid. I played soccer yesterday. Half my team emailed to say they couldn't play and we would have had to play with 7 (against 15) or forfeit. I had to go to the game because I am manager and captain, and so, when I got there I couldn't help but play. I'm trying to justify to myself that people wouldn't know they were pregnant at this stage and would go out and play soccer anyway and they still manage to have children, but I just feel so guilty. I didn't get hit in the stomach (got hit in the hip once as I turned away), but I have been cramping a bit ever since and there was a very very small bit of very light brown discharge on the pad I was wearing. It was also pretty cold because the game was at 3pm so I don't think my body temp got too high (although I was sweating). I don't know, can you guys tell me honestly what you think? Am I really stupid? I guess I was feeling really negative that I was sure the IVF didn't work and so I thought it wouldn't matter if I played, but now, if I have jeopardised my chances, I won't be able to live with it. BT tomorrow morning, I guess at least something will be revealed.
Sorry I don't really feel up for personals this morning, but I really am thinking of all of you and wishing you the best. Don't be as stupid as me!
Airline - I know and understand how hard this LTTC life is and I am sorry you have to go through something which seems so hurtful and selfish at a time we would all give everything to hold our own child in our arms and never let it go. I can entirely appreciate this must seem really selfish, but if it gives you some comfort, I don't imagine for a second that they don't miss their babies every day, but want to give what they perceive the best start in life to be because they are so far away from their families. I am sure they would swap with us the ability to have their family and home life in the same country in a heartbeat. I am so sorry you have to experience this though as that would hurt.
Minime - don't worry for a second. I know it's soooo hard not to, but you are living your life, which is entirely normal. It takes a lot for us ladies to get pregnant, but in reverse, once you are pregnant, it is relatively hard not to be! Try to relax and thinking of you for tomorrow!
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!!) Otherwise I feel fine! Just marking time till Tuesday morning!! DH and I will do a HPT that morning, so we can find out before the BT (we always do things together and finding out whether we are pregnant shouldn't be any different!).
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