Airline - I know and understand how hard this LTTC life is and I am sorry you have to go through something which seems so hurtful and selfish at a time we would all give everything to hold our own child in our arms and never let it go. I can entirely appreciate this must seem really selfish, but if it gives you some comfort, I don't imagine for a second that they don't miss their babies every day, but want to give what they perceive the best start in life to be because they are so far away from their families. I am sure they would swap with us the ability to have their family and home life in the same country in a heartbeat. I am so sorry you have to experience this though as that would hurt.
Minime - don't worry for a second. I know it's soooo hard not to, but you are living your life, which is entirely normal. It takes a lot for us ladies to get pregnant, but in reverse, once you are pregnant, it is relatively hard not to be! Try to relax and thinking of you for tomorrow!
xxx