Congratulations Maggie!! Awesome awesome news.....lets hope you are the first in a nice long line of BFP's to come in the next few days/weeks. Enjoy every minute xx
I also got a positive result yesterday, and am still in shock. Like Maggie I had no systems apart from being a bit bloated - which I had put down to the progesterone.
Good luck Murraycod, and to everyone else as well. I really appreciate the information and support I found on this forum.
Just wanted to say congrats for the BFP's in here, this is great news!!! Enjoy this exciting moment as you deserve it. Sorry as always to those who haven't yet got their BFP, but I hope it will come soon for you.
xxx
Time4aFmly, so sorry you got BFN, honey it will come, hang in there XXXX
Juniper OMG!!!! HOney congrats!!!!!
Maggie, Nae, I can't beleive this is happening!!!!
I sort of feel in limbo still, need to get my beta results monday then will celebrate officially XXXXX
To the girls waiting, good luck, baby dust to all XXXXXX
A big big congrats to Juniper and Murraycod (presumably -- it's sounding good based on your strong positive HPT), as well as to Nay79, plus Maggie, whom I've already congratulated!
What a month!
I'm so thrilled for all of you.
At the same time, I'm sorry to hear of the BFNs that some of you had, and will be pushing for you to be successful on your next go.
gday ladies as of this morning after our insemination we are now in the tww am so excited on one hand that this may just be it that hopefully in two weeks time we'll finally finally have our bfp and on the other am anxious and scared that it won't work.
I'm sure your all in the same boat
COngrats to all the bfp's in here so uplifting to see sorry about the bfn's though
Wow girls... so good to see so many positives in here at the moment - feel like I leave and suddenly everyone's luck changes (though I'm sad to see there are still some frustrating negative results too).
I had a 2nd blood test on Friday which confirmed it was a chemical pregnancy. Have an appointment next Thursday to discuss what my options are for next cycle.
Just wanted to quickly share... the exciting distraction that I had in the form of a few dates on the weekend before my blood test... well it has turned out to be a truly horrible experience (so glad it wasn't the week earlier or I would have wondered if the stress from this had been what caused the pregnancy to not take). The girl turned really nasty after I was emotional and in pain when I got my period (and I didn't even share that with her... just told her I wasn't pregnant). Anyway from talking to others about what she said and wrote and things she did etc I have realised she was playing with me all along and only wanted casual sex and since I refused to have sex at all she has now turned horrid. I feel so sad by all of this because it has been 26 months since I was intimate with anyone and I didn't want to rush into anything (thank god I didn't) but I had enjoyed believing that she really liked me (had stupidly believed her when she said she was really attracted to me) and I thought maybe something would develop in time. I feel really shattered because I opened up to her and trusted her at a time in my life when I was particularly emotionally vulnerable and she has just played me and now she has told me she doesn't want anything at all to do with me (how do you go from telling someone you think they are beautiful and sexy and kissing them to not even wanting to be friends with them within a couple of days when there had been no fight or no reason for things to change - apart from that person finding out they aren't pregnant?!)
Finding out IVF had been unsuccessful was hard enough but then having all this crap on top of that has just compounded it and then on top of that my ex (who I was still very good friends with and who had been a support through most of my trying to concieve journey) told me she doesn't know if she can be friends with me any more because she is hurt that I could like someone else (even though we split up 6 months ago and hadn't been intimate for the last 20 months of our relationship anyway). I thought we were doing okay as friends but it turns out she still hadn't completely let go and she told me she was still very emotionally invested in our friendship and all this has made her realise that maybe she needs to walk away completely.
I feel like I'm grieving for the lost / failed pregnancy and my best friend (ex) and the new girl all together. One thing is bad enough but the combination of all of them is just proving a bit too much to bear at the moment.
Lori
(Word of advice - dating is not a nice distraction from the 2ww after all!) :-(
Dreamrise- I hardly know what to say. It's awful when people we were counting on disappoint us. I'm so sorry your friend has let you down (at least you found out sooner rather than later) It's a big world of people out there- there's someone there who will love you and treat you right.
The situation with your ex sounds difficult. Hopefully there's enough history and respect there to help you get through this time as friends.
I'm sorry about the chemical pregnancy. It's cruel.
Hang in there, the dark times will pass.
T4Fam- So sorry this wasn't your round.
Murraycod- I'll be thinking of you tomorrow. Good luck with the formality!
Hugs
Maggie
Last edited by Maggie; May 30th, 2010 at 11:44 AM.
dreamrise so sorry about the chem preg and everything that has happened right when you need the support
AFM: I feel like yesterday didn't happen lol but have been happily making baby presents for my new neice and soon new nephew or neice. so it's keeping me busy. post transfer injection tommorrow then on friday and before we know it it'll be the following week and we'll find out...
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Brilliant- it looks like we've had a change of luck in here. That's great news!
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