Thank you KMond. I am pleased to report a few positives, even if they aren't of the pregnant variety! Firstly my DH excelled himself at doing and being and saying the right thing and being with me for the phone call (which was not easy yesterday) and we seemed to be able to connect over it; secondly my donor will donate again and thirdly, I just had a vey positive therapy session which helped me start to process the situation and helped me feel very, very cared for and proud of myself for the positive choices I made last night in my actions in relation to grief, failure and disappointment.
Not to say I'm not devastated, I am but I am so grateful that this is not the end of hope and so proud of myself for finding the positives.
Rae - I'm so sorry hun, . It is always really hard news to hear and it sounds like you have a good handle on the situation... it is tuff but finding the positives is the only way to get through all this, otherwise, the negatives will consume you .
So happy to hear that your DH was really supportive and that your donor is willing to give it another shot - yay !!!
terry - GOOD LUCK for your 2ww and I will be 'ing that this is the one for you! Almost a week down for you so not too long to go - yay!! I Hope those pregnancy symptoms are coming along nice and strongly .
Joy - I sent you a PM but here is some more GOOD LUCK vibes!
Sending you both (and anyone lurking) lots and lots of !
Thank you Coral. I'm just so grateful for the support I'm getting and also very relieved that I don't have to go back to work until next week. I am able to find the positives today but working with babies in childcare can sometimes ratchet up the bitterness and envy for a little while after a loss. I do miss "my" babies and toddlers, though and feel like I abandoned them while I tried to have one that is actually mine! I'm surprised to find that I am looking forward to hugging them again soon, I've missed them coz I love them.
Rae so sorry to hear that this wasn't your month. Glad to hear though that you are feeling postive and will be able to use your donor again. As Coral said the negatives can consume us and its great to hear that you are being positive and taking steps forward.
Coral thanks for your well wishes. yes one week down and the craziness is about to begin. This has been my toughest cycle I felt terrible all week after the EPU and quite sore and today I'm just feeling off hopefully its a symptom and not related to the progestrone taking
Hi All I've made it to another 2ww.
Rae I'm sorry it wasn't your time. It can be so cruel and hard to take.
Terry I too haven't been feeling well since the EPU. Very sore and aching inside. When do you test?
Hi Joy and Coral I hope we get some BFPs in here soon.
Hi HB welcome at least now I have one more person in here. My test is on the 31st so the countdown is now well and truly on for me. TMI coming I went to the toilet today and have had a pink tinge I'm so hoping that its an implantation bleed not a sign of AF arriving...Its way to soon for AF so I'm trying to remain positive
Rae - I am sorry it was a bfn this time around. There are some positives though so that is something to look forward to
Welcome HappyBaby! How many embies did they transfer? Are you feeling better after your EPU?
Terry - You & I are testing a day apart - I am on the 1st Sept. I am going to check with the clinic if I can do it on the 2nd though as I really dont want to find out the news at work! I only work 2 days a week and I am due to find out on one of the days I work!
Morning 2wwers
I transferred 2 embies. One was almost a blastocyst and the other was a moralla. I still have a lot of pressure and cramping when I need to go to the toilet which is very strange.
I think I'm testing on the 2nd.
Have a great day everyone and think BFPs!!
I hope everyone had a good weekend. I'm a bit down at the moment. I'm convinced it hasn't worked again this time. I've had absolutely no symptoms at all.
My blood test isn't until next monday the 5th. Hope everyone else is having a better time than me.
Hi HB don't think about it too much heaps of ladies report that they have had no symptoms etc and then they are pleasantly surprised. Think postive thoughts
AFM AF turned up yesterday so i went and had my blood test today just waiting for them to confirm officially that its over for me this month
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Joy. Yay a waiting buddy. Wishing you lots of
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to everyone still waiting and to the the girls who had positive tests.
and thirdly, I just had a vey positive therapy session which helped me start to process the situation and helped me feel very, very cared for and proud of myself for the positive choices I made last night in my actions in relation to grief, failure and disappointment.
. It is always really hard news to hear and it sounds like you have a good handle on the situation... it is tuff but finding the positives is the only way to get through all this, otherwise, the negatives will consume you
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for your 2ww and I will be
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for terry and Joy!
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