Thank you KMond. I am pleased to report a few positives, even if they aren't of the pregnant variety! Firstly my DH excelled himself at doing and being and saying the right thing and being with me for the phone call (which was not easy yesterday) and we seemed to be able to connect over it; secondly my donor will donate again and thirdly, I just had a vey positive therapy session which helped me start to process the situation and helped me feel very, very cared for and proud of myself for the positive choices I made last night in my actions in relation to grief, failure and disappointment.
Not to say I'm not devastated, I am but I am so grateful that this is not the end of hope and so proud of myself for finding the positives.
Rae - I'm so sorry hun, . It is always really hard news to hear and it sounds like you have a good handle on the situation... it is tuff but finding the positives is the only way to get through all this, otherwise, the negatives will consume you .
So happy to hear that your DH was really supportive and that your donor is willing to give it another shot - yay !!!
terry - GOOD LUCK for your 2ww and I will be 'ing that this is the one for you! Almost a week down for you so not too long to go - yay!! I Hope those pregnancy symptoms are coming along nice and strongly .
Joy - I sent you a PM but here is some more GOOD LUCK vibes!
Sending you both (and anyone lurking) lots and lots of !
Thank you Coral. I'm just so grateful for the support I'm getting and also very relieved that I don't have to go back to work until next week. I am able to find the positives today but working with babies in childcare can sometimes ratchet up the bitterness and envy for a little while after a loss. I do miss "my" babies and toddlers, though and feel like I abandoned them while I tried to have one that is actually mine! I'm surprised to find that I am looking forward to hugging them again soon, I've missed them coz I love them.
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to everyone still waiting and to the the girls who had positive tests.
and thirdly, I just had a vey positive therapy session which helped me start to process the situation and helped me feel very, very cared for and proud of myself for the positive choices I made last night in my actions in relation to grief, failure and disappointment.
. It is always really hard news to hear and it sounds like you have a good handle on the situation... it is tuff but finding the positives is the only way to get through all this, otherwise, the negatives will consume you
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for your 2ww and I will be
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for terry and Joy!
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