Oh Bridget, You're not having the easiest of times right now. At least you have an explanation for your mums comments. I remember when we were ttc our ds, we were into the 6th month of ttc and friends of ours announced their pg at a bbq. I hid down the back and had a good cry by myself. They'd only been trying 1 month and all I could think was 'it's not fair!'. I used to do lots of crying in a nice hot shower, that seemed to help for some reason.

Take some time out for yourself, the next few months are going to be hard watching her pg but I'll bet you're going to be a damn good Aunty! Not the same I know, but hang in there and keep trying to stay positive.