Do you have any pain? It starts out like cramps but quickly goes to much much worse. Are you still bleeding and what colour is it?

If you are feeling ANY PAIN at all go straight to your local A&E. If it is ectopic and they catch it soon enough they can repair the tube. You DO NOT want a rupture so it is better to be safe than sorry.

If they try to dismiss you (as they did to me) then ABSOLUTELY INSIST that they do something. You MUST be your own advocate, do not take no for an answer. Remember that the squeakiest wheel gets oiled first. Lie if necessary, tell them you have awful pain in your side, like apendex pain.

The reason I say this is that I was rendered infertile - lost all my tubes - because I listened to nurses and let them send me home. Nearly died each and every time. On the last one they told me I was miscarrying a (miracle) baby. I had been to the hospital in pain a week before and gave me a scan. They were looking at a blood clot that was beat in time with my heart and thought it was a baby that had somehow managed to get past my very damaged, last remaining fillopean tube. (gggrrrrr) Later that week my hubby found me in a pool of blood unconscious in the bathroom. He took me in and they said I must be having a miscarriage. The left me lying by myself in a room for about 7 hours while they waited for the specialist to show up. He instantly realised what was going on and I was rushed to surgery in the nick of time. I was in surgery for ages because they had to take all my insides out of my body while they tried to get all the blood out. The docs told me it was like I had been shot from the inside.

Anyways, I am not trying to scare you. I just want you to stand up for yourself and dont let them fob you off if they try. I think because your ET was only a couple of weeks ago they should be able to remove the emby and save your tube. Please hun, if you suspect that your symptoms could be like anything I have described please go get yourself checked out asap

More big huge hugs,

Sammie