Happy Valentines Day Lovely Ladies
KATONES!!!! Congratulations.. I am truly so very happy for you. Look after yourself and enjoy every moment of your treasured pregnancy
Tish- Only one more sleep then hopefully this stress will be lifted from your shoulders. I feel for you so much. My BT is on Mon and I just don't know how I'd cope without an answer ON MONDAY! Don't tell Lulu this(Lulu don't read on!!!) but I'd be doing just what you are too- POAS that is. I'd just want to know. So anyway know that we are all here for you tomorrow and will be nagging you to tell us what is going on all morning!! Hope you have a lovely evening with DH to take your mind off things a bit..Hi to DH if you are lurking!!
Scooby- Oh Scooby I hear you. Dec 2006 saw me losing my baby due to an ectopic pg and removal of my tube. I tried drugs for the most of last year but with PCOS as well I think my FS thought IVF was my only hope- I wasn't even offered IUI and it was never even explained to me. I think my fear of having a 2nd ectopic was just so great that I was actually relieved to be starting IVF. My experience was pretty horrific- tube ruptured and bled internally. Took 3 months to heal but the emotional healing is nowhere near over. What I have learnt though is don't let anyone else tell you what you should do or what is right for you. You and only you know emotionally, physically and financially at any stage in your life, what you can deal with. There is nothing wrong with continuing on IUI if you are happy to do that. And I pray for you that this will work and you won't even need to think about IVF, but if you do then you will deal with it when YOU need to. As I said before I was kind of relieved to start IVF but it is a big step. But also remember, your longing to have a child doesn't just begin when IVF begins- you have obviously been longing a child for a long time now. So you will feel the same longing, the same TWW and you will be longing the same BFP that you are now. In summing up-you decide what steps to take and when. I hope that helps you a bit. I had no idea this sort of support was available when I lost my baby and knew no-one else who had an ectopic pg. Hope I can help you...
Lulu- Here I am. Have got into a terrible habit while home with DH of going to bed at ridiculous times (like 2am) then sleeping in til ridiculous times (like 11am!!)I even have to set the DVD recorder to tape Opie just in case I don't wake up in time! I know- very naughty and VERY LAZY but it's just so nice not to be woken in a hotel at some stupid time and putting on the uniform and a smile!! So how are you feeling today my friend? Technically according to Dr Lulu, tomorrow would be an appropriate day for me to POAS but I have decided not to give in. If its negative I'll be gutted- and I don't need that. How about you?? Now don't fib- when is your POAS day? I hope you get lots of love this Valentines. I know you have special people in your life. Big hugs
had a cry while trying to pick a valentines card for DH (pathetic)
but ive been thinking if i were to have another ep what would i do cause if you have the methoxarate you cant TTC again for 6 monthes or something til its out of you system so i reckon id get the other tube removed. 
apologise everyone for my ranting. And a big thank you for listening and for the wonderful advise.
Not sure which path will work for you, but I think it's a good idea to talk to someone at the clinic if you can 
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