I am already over it and this was just the 1st go.
one thing I have noticed is the *because of your age* rule...
I am sorta sick of hearing it actually, if everything was dependant on my age I am sure I would have been pregnant by now.
*because of your age,
-we arent giving you pessaries,
-we would like you to start the next round straight away,
-you should have had more fertilized eggs,
-you should have had more survive,
-you should of had blastos..
I will be talking to my FS about this - and advising them to assess me based on ME not my age - cause if everything was normal - I wouldn't be seeing them!
Hi Krikkit,
Sorry to hear about your BFN.
I can sympathise with the "it's your age" excuse. My friends/family/FS all say that I "will" get pregnant and that I'm "so lucky" because of my age. It doesn't make me feel any better after a BFN. FS is also reluctant to try anything different because of my age. Appareny being "my age" means I have to keep TTC for another decade before anyone will take me seriously.
Good luck with your treatment and getting some answers.
Seph
Well Im in the TWW, how frustrating!! I find myself turning into a insane crazy person, checking into Belly Belly everyday trying to see if my symptons are similar to anyone elses!!! My blood test is on Friday...
I keep waking up throughout the night to go to the bathroom, and feel a sharp pain in my left hand side...of course Im also checking for Aunt Flo!!
Hi Girls,
As always lurking around and hoping that you all get a BFP's. To all those already blessed with them BIG congrats to those who are in the TWW hang in there it does happen.
As for what happens after transfers here is what I used as a guide:
3 day transfer-
1dpt ..embryo is growing and developing
2dpt... Embryo is now a blastocyst
3dpt....Blastocyst hatches out of shell on this day
4dpt.. Blastocyst attaches to a site on the uterine lining
5dpt.. Implantation begins, as the blastocyst begins to bury in the lining
6dpt.. Implantation process continues and morula buries deeper in the lining
7dpt.. Morula is completely implanted in the lining and has placenta cells &
fetal cells
8dpt...Placenta cells begin to secret HCG in the blood
9dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
10dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
11dpt...HCG levels are now high enough to be immediately detected on
HPT
5 day transfer-
-1dpt ..embryo is growing and developing
0dpt... Embryo is now a blastocyst
1dpt....Blastocyst hatches out of shell on this day
2dpt.. Blastocyst attaches to a site on the uterine lining
3dpt.. Implantation begins,as the blastocyst begins to bury in the lining
4dpt.. Implantation process continues and morula buries deeper in the lining
5dpt.. Morula is completely implanted in the lining and has placenta cells &
fetal cells
6dpt...Placenta cells begin to secret HCG in the blood
7dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
8dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
9dpt...HCG levels are now high enough to be immediately detected on HPT
Kristy, big hugs hun . I'm sorry it's not a BFP, and I hope you get it soon
Sammie and jodz, thanks girls for the implantation info. I now know how it all goes, bit hard to know everything and right now every little twinge I get I keep hoping it's implantation pain
Kay, GL for your BT on Friday, you must be very nervous now! I hope it brings you a nice surprise
Krikkit - so sorry to hear of your negative result, keep your chin up. I get sick of the age thing as well, it doesn't make it any better when things don't work out.
Jodz - thanks for posting that info, very helpful.
I bought a couple of HPT's today, not sure when I'll use them. Do pessaries effect the results you get?
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. I'm sorry it's not a BFP, and I hope you get it soon
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