BJ - It is so hard to not read things into everything, isn't it? If we weren't in the TWW, no doubt we wouldn't even notice the twinges/cramps etc. I try to tell myself it's nothing and not get my hopes up, but then I go and do stupid things like work out the date the baby would be born based on day of conception, and what starsign the baby would be On the last cycle I had two embies transferred and every night I would say goodnight to them and good morning, and then when it was a BFN I felt like an idiot. So this time I haven't done that - and then I feel guilty as if I've given up on them when they might still be there and doing fine! Aaaaagh.