Now then - these are my thoughts... which could be slightly cynical based on the fact that my said friend is not trying to have a baby atm nor has she ever.

a) Telling me that someone is pregnant - is not a good thing atm!
b) The fact that they were trying for 7 years is not inspiring to me AT ALL, infact, it is depressing. It makes me think that I am going to have to invest that amount of time, energy, emotion, money and effort into having a baby myself - which unfortunately, I dont feel as though I have the strength for that atm.
c) A very big fat sarcastic 'THANKYOU' for telling me that I have 'lots of time' and that there is 'hope for me'! Coming from somebody who couldnt even begin to imagine what I am going through atm is hugely annoying and is making me feel negative about my situation NOT POSITIVE!!!

Im not going to even respond to the message and yes, I know she had the best intentions... but WHY do people say / write things like this when they just have NO IDEA....?????

I read the message to DH and even he said "she has no idea does she?"... and he NEVER says things like that!!!