Hi Everyone

My hubby is excited about the prospect of becoming a father and is also concerned about my health and makes gentle reminders from time to time about things that I should or shouldn't do. But at the same time he is dissassociated from the IVF process and does not retain information about the drugs or stages of treatment. We've also had the conversation re: childbirth - he doesn't want to be there. Of course we had an argument about it but he sees it as 'women's business' and would be outside the delivery room anyway.

I think he feels on the outside of this whole process that somehow apart from his 'production room' contribution he is not involved. Its kind of like having a party but not being invited. He openly and proudly tells friends that we have started the IVF process but I don't know how to make him feel reassured or more involved?????? ANY SUGGESTIONS?????

Production Room Experience: (sample for analysis). Hubby went into production room - said there were porn dvds catering for all tastes including bi. He was too afraid to put a DVD on in case he got the wrong one and that it had the reverse effect. Also after he produced his sample realised that he had left the door open .. just a little bit. OMG!!! ... anyway he told me a couple of days later .. we had a great belly laugh about it.