Everything that the ladies have said above... And also, the one thing I hate the most is 'so, are you pregnant yet?' I have a gf that asks me every. single. time I see her and she's know that we've been trying for 2 years +. I feel like she's rubbing it in my face that no, I'm still not pregnant.

She will come around, just be gentle.

Good on you for asking, I wish I had more people like you in my life!!