Sonya - although you do have your boys the dissapointment, hurt and anger are the same espically after TTC with AC, as you know that the oppertunity was there.

Ellie have you been doing IVF for long?

As for a FET it depends if your cycles are regular or wether thay will need to medicate you. if i were you i would phone your clinic nurse and ask her as i dont think i have ever had to go back to FS for a FET as im already started IYKWIM. I think it's only for full stims that you will need to see your Fs again

GL