Hi Liz,

Thanks for giving me a reality check and making me realise that not every child is going to look like - or even act like - their parents regardless of whether there is a biological link or not. I think I just felt hammered because this same statement kept on being said over and over again.

I'm glad that you have a baby that is absolutely adored! Hopefully I will have the same soon. And I am very lucky that I have a both a husband and a very good friend that are happy to go down this path to create this special little child.

Still finding this Christmas one of the hardest I've had in a long while. I'm so glad I stumbled across this forum.

Once again, thanks.