Hello Gargy,
I am like Liz, my Dh is Asian, (I too only ever looked at black men...) My Dh is dark also, but he is not our first daughter's Bio father (he was same nationality though).
Our 2 girls are identical, I always am told how the girls look nothing like me but both look identical to DH... I just agree, it's noone else's business anyways.

I have been overseas with DD#1 at the age of 2 & asked if I was her nanny!? I just laughed & said no she's my daughter!

My Mum takes all her grandkids out & ppl stare as opur girls have thick dark hair, darker skin & are Asian looking, my nephew is as white as can be & totally blonde, his sister is a red head & my other niece is a plae blondie!!

Ppl always look & ask if they are all adopted or related!!! I ahve no idea why it matters to strangers or what affect it has on their lives, but when DH & I are together with the kids, ppl always stop us to comment!

If I am out with the girls you can guarantee if I meet someone whom doesnt know me/us they will always ask what nationality are the kids Father!???

Honestly, there are many more things in life to concern ourselves with. Enjoy your gonna be the kick A$$edest Parents ever!!!!!!