Thank you so much for all of your advice and for openly telling your personal stories and coping strategies.

Peanutter - I can't believe your friend's way of helping you! It's lovely for her that she will never know just how insensitive she was.

Mummasue - I'm sorry you lost your best friend as well. It's another crazy way people try to be helpful - whinging about being pregnant (what I wouldn't give to have morning sickness right now!). It's nowhere near on the same scale, but I liken it to complaining about growing old to someone who is dying.

Saph - I also have been very very blessed to have a DS and do feel very guilty in here all the time. He was ivf after LTTTC but I still feel bad complaining to others who are TTC #1.

Thanks again ladies