Thanks for your comments ladies.
Belle, I won't be having a lap done, unless something needs to be done about this cyst. DH & I discussed our options and he is not interested in medical intervention at all, and I am not sure I want to go down that path either, for a number of reasons. I think it would be different if we were ttc for our first.
I am wondering if the cyst could have been causing problems - it was pretty big - though I guess I just have to accept that my eggs have most likely reached their use-by date. It can't be DH, or we wouldn't have got pg by accident last year - had been taking precautions during fertile time (condoms from CD10 onwards - we weren't ttc) so it must have been an exceptionally long-lived sperm.
It's hard not to feel bitter - I was happy with what we have, until then, and I know quite a few women who have successfully been pg at my age, but it seems to be beyond us. I know I should be grateful that we have children and I am - I know there are many women who don't, and I hope I haven't offended anyone.
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