Heaps of great tips there.
Melbo - Focusing on a project is a great distraction, I have study to do so will dig it out!
Accepting a bad day as just that a bad day and allowing yourself to have it.
I found I needed to know as much as i could medically as well this helped me heaps.

Monnie - Getting on with life is so important you are right, I have held off on this in case of What if??? Pretty amazing starting a business!
We try to appreciate what we have but can always be reminded to do this more.
Protecting yourself is great and to know it is ok not to go to that baby shower I have to realise I can say no if I really dont feel like it.
It is fantastic to see people like yourself helping others and also that you have been successful dispite all this TTC stuff it does bring hope and helps alot so thanks for sharing. Best wishes for your bubs!

Sammi - I dont wanna sound like a fruit cake but I was affiriming with "I choose to be pg" I was falling pg but not holding long. So someone said well you are being given what you are asking for! Then she said be more specific she suggested "I am totally fulfilled in my new role as a mother, we have been blessed with this beautiful healthy baby before the year 2008" I have been trying this and imagining holding my baby in my arms. It makes me feel warm and fuzzy so cant hurt?!

Thanks everyone and good luck TTC!!