Hi emma,

This thread should be the secondary infertility thread, as I too am having trouble conceiving my second after we conceived my son virtualy in the first month of trying......it's now been a year and a half.....I've been on clomid now for 3 months, even though I was ovulating before.....and my FS wants me to stop at 4 months.....my AF is due any day now, and then my last clomid cycle....
DH and I do not want to go down the IVF route, mainly because of age and finances..... so I guess whatever will be will be....

I think the hardest thing with secondary fertility is that you've been given a taste of motherhood and then the urge to have more for yourself and your child is huge......and it's taken away for whatever reason....all the docs say there is nothing wrong with you....but there must be if we can't get pregnant.....or maybe its all phsycological.....but it's definately messing with my mind.....
All we can do is remain positive for each other and keep on trying...

Kazz


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