Hi Hummingbird I'm sorry your TTC #2 has been a hard journey for you, I can really understand as I am going through it myself. The only advice I can give you with your FET is to DTD the night before the transfer and become a couch potato for a couple of days. It's what worked for me. It has gotten harder once my DS was born as of course I couldn't put my life on hold and not pick him up etc, but I still managed to get the embie to implant in my second last cycle (unfortunately this pg ended up in a m/c due to a chromosonal issue). One of my friends has also tried a 'scrape' before her transfer and I've also heard of embryo glue, but not sure what that is exactly. A lot of girls swear by acupuncture before and after transfer too. GL with your next transfer hun .