yep 'deed' is done and was absolutely fine and felt really safe and comforting.

i admit i have never felt like it after an EPU during the TWW. I was reading that some clinics have a no sex policy for the TWW and others don't worry from 24 hours after ET. I also heard that some believe it is helpful to DTD just before ET (morning of or evening before) as semen can 'prime' the uterus for acceptance of the embryo. Perhaps others know more about this than me.