I don't suffer secondary infertility but can imagine how frustrating it is - with the dumb comments. I have primary infertility with one loss under my belt and I get "well at least you know you can get pregnant". Well, it took six years to get there, does that mean I have to wait another six years????

It seems that people always have something to say, some stupid comment to add, or what they feel are wise words.

If I don't know what to say, I say nothing. I just wish that others were like that too.

There is nothing wrong with wanting another child, a sibling for your DS.
I just wanted to offer my support.

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