Thanks so much for your replies ladies. I know there are no guarantees in life with any pg, young or old, and as Tash said, a pg is a hope not a promise (well said hun). I think right now I am faced with the hard, cold facts of TTC as an older (geez I didn't think of myself as older at 38!) woman. I know this place, and of course all you wonderful ladies, will keep me sane when we do decide to do a cycle. And I should stop having a relationship with Dr Google.