don't fret BW - i didn't take it as a negative thing - i was actulaly grateful to hear that someone else had been given similar advice. i know they're concerned about OHSS (due to a number of follicles stimulating but at different levels through the cycle) and they have a little more control with the IVF - i probably would have asked more this morning, but going to an appointment like that on only about 3 hours sleep really isn't a good idea!

i think they're looking at a few factors, like they did with you. my pcos, DH having a low-ish sperm count... i think i just wanted confirmation that someone else had been told something similar seeing so many of the girls on here have been through multiple cycles of IUI.