Hi Possums
Gosh you and I are so similar it's scarey! I too had a ruptured ectopic and only have one tube which was described by FS as 'dodgy'...but I think I've shared all those details with you before...and I just noticed you have poodles...so do we...not that that has anything to do with TTC...oops but they sure get you through the tough times don't they!? Other than the tube issue are there other reasons for IVF and did you have any support drugs like asprin and progesterone with your last pregnancy? Might be worth investigating? We did IVF for years and always ended in early loss...so when we finally fell naturally after giving up, FS put me on a cartier asprin daily and a progesterone support program...and an early scan to rule out ectopic...only you will know what feels right for you but I encourage you to ask lots of questions and hang in there...I know how hard that is and sometimes others have to have hope for you when you have none yourself...but miracles do happen...just the journey on the way that sux!