ANGE.. i do not mind at all hun i actually thank you for remembering what happend to me. it actually happened to missy to if i remember
well possums, as ange has already said i did have my second ectopic in the same tube (the stub as they called it) and that was from ivf actually after having 2 embies put back.from my understanding the chances with ectopic and ivf are quite high,though you wouldnt think so as they are actually putting the embies into the uterus BUT oh well it can happen the clinic will proberbly tell you the chances are low but in fact its very common
i wish you all the luk with what ever you decide to do only you and dh can make the choice..

also my sweet friend im so very sorry for your loss