Thanks so much everyone for your different perspectives.

Smithy- I know I was so sad and frustrated for you when that ectopic happened after IVF, and I do tend to think of IVF reducing the risk by quite a bit, but as you say, it can happen. And I am starting to realise the clinics can put a spin on many things!


to the others, you are right, the controlled aspect of IVF is a big plus for sure.

I need to talk much more to my fertility specialist and also my OB...they have differeng views too! It's just my FS is 3 hours from me and I dont have much to do with them, but will be having the miscarriage testing done through them...not sure yet what tests etc...expect to talk to them this arvo actually.

Thanks again for the support and advice. You ladies are great.

Ellie- and yes, our poodles help me through so much...just their loving little faces and excitement each day whenI come home is enough to lift me up