I was back at work full time when my boys were each 12 weeks old. Out of necessity.

I had an awesome family day carer, and my dad helps out. That's the only way I could manage it. If I had to do long hours then dad did the pick ups and drop offs.

Even when I left XH when DS1 was 12 months old, I still had to work full time. Sure it's hard, but I managed.