Welcome phebee - sounds like an interesting job. I think most jobs you always end up needing more time than you have - even when full time I still managed to bring stuff home - although DH never brings stuff home - I think he is very good at saying 'No' - whereas I have a real need to do things properly and often find myself thinking would rather spend extra hour at home on this than leave it as it is, I find it very hard to detach from it. I used to hope that contracting instead of being a permanent employee would give me more distance from my job and not get so (I want to say emotionally attached but it is IT and logistics - so you can't really be emotionally involved with it) - so I will say entwined with it, but hasn't really made any difference.