Captain, hug for you and your daughter, she has obviously suffered alot because of it.

That's the same reason I am leaning toward a c/s. I think we were lucky the first time and that we won't be as lucky again and I'm not prepared to risk the baby. Like you, I'm scared of making the wrong decison.

Today I had an ante-natal appoinment and spoke to a midwife who gave me a really good talk about the risks. In the end she said that I just need to put my trust and my faith in whatever decision we choose. She's right though, if I don't, it won't matter what I come to it won't work out if I don't have my heart in it.