Firstly let me say how sorry I am for your loss
I lost our dd at 20 weeks at my 19/20 week scan they told me that my cervix was shorter than they would expect to see at this time. All my ob said was that i would probaly deliver early ( little did I know that it meant this early) and if they had known sooner they may have put a stitch in. i went into labour a week later there was nothing they could do.
After all the tests were run all they could tell me was it was mechanical ???? and if i decided to fall pregant again they would put a stitch in.
Well I have fallen pregnant again and decided I didnt want to see the same ob and wanted a second opinion.
My ob now has been wonderful I am on fortnightly visits and he ran many tests and have had a lot of scans looked at my history and the events that led up to and including the delivery decided that it wasnt mechanical I didnt need a stitch I am nearly 32 weeks and all is going well. He still couldnt give me a definate reason for why it happened although he did discover I have fibroids which he said could have contributed to it.
All I am saying it hasnt been easy and I have been scared this whole pregnancy and will continue till I am holding this bundle say in my arms
please ask lots of questions get a second opinion if need be. I believe you need to be informed about everything before you can make the decision to try again.
I am here if you need to talk.
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