NaeNae - Please dont blame yourself sweetheart.. After I had my first two m/c's and then feel pg with my DD3 I wanted further testing done as I just didnt want to wait for another loss, one of the tests they did was in case I had an Incompetant cervix, they did the u/s at 14weeks as I was advised that it had to be done at 14weeks not before not after. This was done by u/s. If you are concerned about your next pg hun, ask for them to do this u/s to check for an incompetant cervix. If it turns out that you do they will do something early before it is too late, if it turns out that you dont have an incompetant cervix you have one less thing to worry about. Thankfully I didnt have an incompetant cervix which was a huge relief. Lots of