Nae,

Thanks for you replies (both times - don't think I got around to saying thanks after your first reply).

My ob said it was painless dilation of the cervix. He said I must have a short cervix and can either have a stitch at 14wks next time or monitor and then have a stitch if it's shortening. Not sure which way we'll go. I know there can be complications with the stitch but I also know that cervix could possibly shorten the day after I've had a scan and then I wouldn't be having another scan for another fortnight.

I know I need to get past the 'why' stage, it's just hard because you think none of this should of happened. Have you tried again for a baby?

Thanks for keeping in touch.
Anike