Thank you, Bec,

Its been so incredibly tough though lately. Was told that forceps would be used in the D&C. I'm absolutely terrified of repercussion of any complication. Like what if the dilation procedures used cause me to develop an incompetent cervix or possible scarring causes me problems conceiving in the future?

The only reason i want to go ahead with it would be because the hospital will arrange blessing and burial for the foetal remains, and i want at least that for our son.

I'm absolutely terrified I've never had surgery ever before.