Hi Rachel

Thankyou for your willingness to share - I really do appreciate it - and understand that it is not easy.

Do you mind me asking if they diagnosed all the problems with your sons heart in utero or did you find out more when he was born?

In response to your question, we have two children, a son 6 (Grade 1) and a 3 year old daughter - they are currently fighting over whether it is a boy or a girl - they have no idea what is going on.

So, we have them to consider in whatever decision we make; and like you we do not live near Melbourne (rather a 4 hour drive)

I guess my big question is - did you at any time consider termination? What was the driving force behind your decision to continue your pregnancy? (a question I am sure that is hard to answer now when you look at your little boy and the joy he has no doubt brought you)

One other question - what is PM? I am new to the forum!

Nicole