Hey ladies I'm back!
I'm now 27 weeks and am currently on HBR I will stay in hospital now until bubba is born. After 10 days of constant spotting and a light bleed plus lots of "tightenings" my OB decided this was the best course of action. (probably doesn't help that we live 2+ hrs away from the nearest hospital that could deal with this situation).
So I've spoken at length with 2 highly respected OB's and expressed my wishes to keep my uterus and they are now contemplating leaving the placenta untouched and letting it reabsorb itself.
As far as how preemie she will be they aren't willing to let me go any longer then 34 weeks, all depends on how much I bleed in the meantime.
Thank you all though for your well wishes and replies.
P.S. I did go and buy a really good pump