Hi Debbie, thanks so much for your reply here.

The support group I founded along with a dear friend who also suffered a loss through anen in a twin pregnancy is called AS~AP (Anencephaly Support ~ Australian Parents), it is open to anyone who has been affected by a pregnancy with anen, not just the parents but siblings, grandparents etc.

I'll send you a link to the group in PM as I don't know about forum rules and wouldn't want to post openly just in case I get in trouble.

If anyone else would like the link please don't hesitate to ask me, we are so eager to build our membership base and start helping and supporting people like ourselves.

Debbie, I wish you the very best of luck TTC, I know the fears involved with trying again, I can only imagine after two anen pregnancies you are on tenderhooks and am certain that can't be helping your efforts any. It took me 8 months to fall again, I think I was lucky, I just opened my heart to the chance that it would be ok.....I was also breastfeeding Ben's twin so that was hampering my efforts somewhat. Now I have 5 weeks to go until I meet my little rainbow baby, I can't believe it, the pregnancy has been full of anxiety on my part....I was terrified last week as I thought for sure I was going to give birth at the same gestation as I did the twins but thankfully I'm in one peace!

Anyway, I'll get that link off to you now.

Lea xxxxx