Cancer survivers

[soul]

Lisabear, will do, will do! I really seem to be making myself look quite selfish on here with speaking about it as you can see lol, I get all nervous before we even know the verdict. I do know though that they have to cut alot of area just to get to it, thats a fact! so will pm you and pick your brains on it.

By the way, whoo hoo for a beautiful baby about to enter the world!!!

[nic]

Soul, I don't think you are looking selfish at all! You are in a place right now that is downright scary and terrifying and you are allowed to be scared and think out loud, it's only to human to wonder about the "what if's".

I know I was lucky with my breast lump when it was removed, but I was terrified all the same. I put my op off for almost 18 months, I just didn't want to know anything, I was absolutely $hit scared of leaving my beautiful 18 month old girl.
I didn't tell DH how I was feeling, I was trying not to be too melodramatic and all that.

No matter how bad things are, I think there will always genuinely be people who are 'worse off' than us. You're allowed to feel selfish and feel like 'poor me', because without those low moments, I believe you can't have and truly appreciate the highs.

Thinking of you soul..hugest hugs..

Nic