GRR why cant my body just suck it up!!!

[diannescruffy]

Big from me too. Wish I had some advice. Maybe try and ring a midwife at your hospital.

Regards,
Dianne

[squidipa]

Big from me too. Wish I had some advice. Maybe try and ring a midwife at your hospital.

Regards,
Dianne

problem is with out sounding like i dont want help, they always say well there nothing we can do, rest up. More or less suck it up. I have even been told well if you knew you were prone to it why get pregnant suck it up!

a support belt can help stablize my pelvis as i have SPD but it doesn't help with the relaxed ligaments causing the prolaps. Plus a support belt is really uncomfortable and hurts to wear.

i wonder at times if i was ever ment to have kids.

[Arimeh]

Of course you were meant to have kids!!!!

I have SPD too and I don't wear my support belt either - it digs into my c-section scar and is too painful

[squidipa]

Of course you were meant to have kids!!!!

I have SPD too and I don't wear my support belt either - it digs into my c-section scar and is too painful

you said it sweet!!!!, and being BIGGER as i am it scrunches in places and can leave nasty marks that get sore too....i also find in orgenancy i can become allergic to elastic. But whats worse is what you said the digging into the scar, Plus my nerves are a little funny this time round in pregnancy.

Just got up and i feel like i have a large lumpy hard piece of toilet paper in my nickers obviously i dont. hard and lumpy like a tissue going through the washing machine.

Thanks mel for you hug. I been a bit emotional about all this i had a ruff trot with Josiah's pregnancy with this and its just getting me down.

thanks diannescruffy for you huggle too.

[Footsteps]

no advice just massive hugs.
i am in pain 24/7 so i understand 100%.
its hard when you arent getting support or help from your care providers and its physically and emotionally draining.
sorry if im babbling i just wish there was something that could be done for you.
you are meant to have kids hun...its just a painful time to get there.
i hope you can get something that helps.
take care hun xxx
p.s i think the most insulting thing a doctor can do is tell you to suck it up and put up with it...they are not the ones that have to live with it.xx

[squidipa]

no advice just massive hugs.
i am in pain 24/7 so i understand 100%.
its hard when you arent getting support or help from your care providers and its physically and emotionally draining.
sorry if im babbling i just wish there was something that could be done for you.
you are meant to have kids hun...its just a painful time to get there.
i hope you can get something that helps.
take care hun xxx
p.s i think the most insulting thing a doctor can do is tell you to suck it up and put up with it...they are not the ones that have to live with it.xx

[squidipa]

p.s i think the most insulting thing a doctor can do is tell you to suck it up and put up with it...they are not the ones that have to live with it.xx

i do agree.!!!

[Footsteps]

if you every want to talk pm me.
i hope you get some relief hun i really do.
take care xxx