After exhaustive research we decided to get the MMR for DD when she was 14 months old. She suffered a mild temperature and rubella-type rash 6 weeks after the vaccination but nothing more. There is some question as to whether it was the Rubella part of the vaccine or something else entirely. I kept her in for a few days so she wouldn't meet any PG women (though the doctor said she would not be a danger to anyone) but all else was fine. It was the right decision for us.

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