storm,

if he thinks it's an ectopic, he should be doing something about it now, not waiting! He can't be that convinced then if he's telling you to wait!

Ectopics can rupture your tube, and you don't have to bleed for it to happen. If you get any pain at all, go back to get a 2nd opinion.

I hope he's wrong, silly man, and all is well with you.