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Mrszbaby.....god darl im so sorry your having to have your 3rd D&C in such a short time must be bloody terrible and scary for you. Its never easy losing a baby and having that ultrasound cant be easy for you to deal with either.things will return to as normal as possible soon for you!
Take it easy
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Hi MrzbabyOh i really feel for you....I had after birth in me after my loss and i bleed for 9 weeks without realizing its so hard when you just want to get on with it yet you cant
Well ladies since my winge last time i have had good news all around
I went into my doc and came up with a white lie saying this will be my last transfer and i dont want to leave one embie behind so he gave me the ok fewwww.I felt so proud coz he is such a hard doc to stand up to.
So then i was worried sick that maybe my last 2 embies wont survive the thaw and i got the good news yesterday that they did
So today was my transfer of 2 great looking blasties and i cant be happier.Now i just need one more hurdle and im home free yep i need them to stick on,any ideas?..lol
Huh i had a cry on my way home coz its been such a drama week and now i have my embies in and im just so happy.The thought of having twins is making me so excited but i need to realize that having them both implant is asking for alot.
On another topic my DD has finally found a nice gown its very simple but thats the way she wants it.She has also chosen her Malaysian outfits so everything is going smoothly but slowly.We just need to figure out catering and a few bits and pieces and were done.Her theme is red and white so im ecited to see how its all going to look.
Now a quick question would any of you lovely ladies be able to come?i would love to meet you and it will be great day.
Well i must get back to resting
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Dear Mum: I am spine tingling with joy for you ! good for you standing up to the doc. You go girl.....
I wish you EVERY ( yes and I am yelling it ...with joy from the roof top ) EVERY EVERY BIT OFwishes for you.
I so want this to work for you.
I am not a religous person but have found myself praying a lot lately and tonight I will include you in my prayers if that ok.
AFM: Yeah well I am feeling a lot stronger and better / clearer about things now. DH and I have tlaked about the TTC and have decided that as soon as AF comes back ( I am home Aunt Flow visit anytime soon
Thanks for all the messages they have really helped pull me through all of this ( I have been reading them on my blackberry in hosp.. but can't log in for some reason
Take care Em
Last edited by mrzbaby; March 8th, 2009 at 09:15 PM. : sort of mixed up read wrong but ok now
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dearmum, glad your making some progress with the two embies being transferred. when i was going down the ivf i was quite adamant with them about putting two back, but i never heard back from them. I really hope that they stick for you...
mrz baby, thats awful that you are going back for another d&c how horrible. I hope they get everything... although you have to ask why they didn't get it all the first time!
kiya.. hey how are you...
onemore, great to hear maddison is doing great....
em, i did post to you after i read about breah's birthday, but the stupid thing didn't load on the page and it must have got lost. anyway, i felt for you... I am glad though you had beautiful breah... and i hope it was a happy day. I haven't been up to nothing. started back at uni. doing one subject so its pretty crusie. other things are ok at the moment but they tend to change often. I still pray and ask god to help things and to still have one little bubba again. I guess it will be in his time...
hey to everyone else.
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Hi Ladies.....
Mrzbaby......Thanks ever so much i would really appreciate it if you could pray for my embies to stick coz they are my last hope.
You sound a little happier today
Hi Luvchildren....Babe did you do IVF?
Yeh most docs over here are idiots you need to be totally infertile or have bad embies to get a chance at having 2 put back GRRRR.I needed to be sneaky and come up with a very good excuse to have 2 put back.I feel its pointless transfering 1 frozen because there not as good as fresh,i can agree on just transfering just 1 fresh but it still should be upto us.
Well ladies today at my transfer i asked to have my urine tested and its come back with blood in it so that means i still have my urine infection what worries me is will it affect the implantation...the nurse said she doesnt think so but thats not the answer i was after so im going to try and get a appt to see my normal doc soon.I dont understand why i keep getting them
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Dearmum good work darl and i have everything crossed for you. I think you really need to see someone about your UTI and FaSt. Im sure you don't want history repeating its self.
luv.....Hi darl Breahs birthday is on the 1st of May but im in the middle of planning everything and still have no ideas on wat to do for it but it has to be special. Hope your ok and keeping busy.
Better go im babysitting today, not fun for me hehe xxxxxx
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sorry girls for being MIA, but you will never believe what has happened again with the ^%&$#@! again....she is at it again butt his time she has gone one step further this time....she is now publicly claiming that everything DH and i have done in our life is happening with her to the point she has even publicly said that DH and i have separated and they are back together and she is living in our house with not just my kids, but her kids as well.....it is horrible and it is now scaring me that she is living in such a fictional world....DH and i are not going to see our solicitor to put an AVO against her.....keep you up to date....cheers kiya
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oops sorry....i should have written that we are going to see about placing an AVO against her....she has frazzled me that much that i'm not thinking straight......we have been getting prank calls for the past 2 days as well....why can't she just leave us alone....she is married to some other guy....obviously she won;t be happy until she has not just her DH, but mine as well......kiya
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Hi girls well there nothing exciting going on in here you are becoming a boring bunch lol......
Well i'll just have to liven things up.
DF comes home today and says its TIME........Im like time for bloody what???? Its time we started looking into having our FET. I just started laughing at him like we had spoken about it but not really in detail and we hadnt set anything in concret.
So i have to go back and get a referral to see my FS and get referred back to westmead and have my blood work and maybe an ultrasound done again and thats it. Sound pretty simple really so going to see the FS on the 29th of April and get the ball rolling once again.
DF says so what do we do this time do we have two embryos ( day 6 blasties) put back or just one...............
The question remains open for disgustion.................
Kiya sorry things are up the $hit again. I say just give it to her right between the eyes
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Oh Kiya.... I see that we share the same problems with the DH ex.... I have concluded that she ( ex) even though has gone off and had children to her partner is really unhappy actually miserable because they had it so good with our hubbys and thought they could get better... so here is my little time line :
went to get better discovered that there wasn't better out there..... had kids so see if it could get better that way... still not better... oh $hit there ex have a new partner mmmm she won't compare to me becasue i am so damn great ( NOT!).... Ok heres trouble they are getting married... he can't possibly live without me... Damn he is happy and I'm miserable ... how am i going to survive now?.... by being a complete &%$ch!
Oh kiya I dont even live in the same state and have have met my DH ex but the amount of crap she puts us through is jus amazing.... I wish shewould just go enjoy being miserable in the life she made for herself..... Won't happen... It is now to the point she uses the kids and bags there dad out about how bad he ius and how he doesn't care .... he does care but he just doesn't want to ring th house as he doesn't want or need to put up with her he only wants to have contact with the kids.... Some ex's need there own country to be flown to. One with no means of external communication such as phones internet, mail...
i know its hards try to keep your chin up...I often wonder if our little bean died becasue of how much stress we were going through at that time.
Hope you get the AVO... They are hard to get when kids are involved ... well it was for me I know because of my ex.
Dear Mum: still praying for you and thinking of you here is so morefor you hun.... you can never have to much hey
Mum of six: great news about your FET apt... I thoughn it was great that your DF cam home with the lets do this now idea... Good luck and may this be the start of our next forever baby...
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WOOHOO....jumping around doing the baby dance with Mo6 (mum of 6)....can't wait to hear a BFP from you soon....
Jodes.....hang in there darl....there must be something out there that will stop the uti's from hanging around.....i know i always had them when i was preg, but they always but me on antibiotics to clear it up....nothing worse than being preg and feelign like you are peeing out razor blades. you don;t have a little stone in there do you that could be causing a blockage and not allowing the pee to flow through clearly causing the irritation that turns to UTI ?
waves to everyone else and says how you all going ?....cheers kiya
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So out of touch again Ladies.
All doing well here, still no baby LOL, though I don't blame him, who would want to come out & met us atm when my lovely 14yo is being a right b...ch?grrrrrrr
Did I read right Em? ooooooooooo wow!!!!
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storm.....you are looking fab-u-lous darl.....that big belly of yours looks beautiful.....he will come when he is ready.....i can totally relate to you wanting to see him and wanting him out, but maybe your body is saying let things settle with your dd then he will say "here i am".....wishing you all the best....cheers kiya
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LOL See thats much better. I knew i would get everyones ears *****ed up and now I have something to read hehe.
Ive been walking around in my own little bubble today happy kind of but worried and scared at the sametime. Then i think $hit I just got myself a new car at xmas time so now how the hell will we all fit unless we take two cars.
And 2 babies MAYBE???well im kind of thinking that might be to much of an ask from me this time..
Storm sorry to hear DD is being a B'Arch how old is she? Can i help out in anyway? Im a good listener..........
Hope all you girls are good and keep talking!! I dont care if your talking rubbish or mumble, its all good hehehe
Em xxxxxxxx
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She is 14 Em, such a wonderful age (not)!! argh, she'll come good soon I hope, the inside of her bedroom will get boring after a while I'm sure.
Wow 2 babies, how exciting.
Thanks Kiya, though it feels like a large basketball these days, LOL, will be very glad to meet my little guy, whenever he decided to come..........I do hope it's soon though.
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kiya, hang in there. I had enormous trouble when i first married. what sucked is that it always seemed that my dh never address the issue. I hope the avo works out and she just goes away. what i can't believe is that she has so much time to stick her nose into your life!
storm, wow you look great... you probably don't feel it and i wish i was looking like that but, i hope that you are feeling okay... i hear you about you 14 year old, that can be a handful and i do the same thing... my 16 year has lost her precious mobile phone for 5 weeks! just because of the attitude thing... i can't believe what they are game to do and say....
jodes, i hope the two little ones stick for you.......
em, wow yes you are a topic starter aren't you..... well it would be a big ask! where did he come from with that? it would be exciting and scary.... i can take your place if you want LOL. I have started my subject again but will be on holidays soon. Things are pretty much the same for me and though i keep praying.....
mrz baby, hope the clomid does it for you....
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Hi girls just wanted to pop in very quickly. Ive had 5 games of footy today with the boys. Grrr bloody trials............. So tired now.
DF and i are keeping a very low profile on this nex cycle so for those beautiful friends of mine on facebookOur bellybelly secret. Thanks girls xxxxx
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