Hi Mrzbaby Im so sorry for your loss I truely am. I got some bad news off my neighbour today and all i want to do is cry. She had her tubes tied 7 years ago and out of the blue fell pregnant with them still tied. Today at 39.5wks her little girls was born sleeping. Rest in peace little one
Oh Mumof6, i'm so sorry for your neighbours loss....it must be devastating right now for her atm.
mrzbaby.....hi, welcome and i to am sorry for your loss....the emotions you are going through right now are very normal.....you will know when it is the right to TTC again....things always have a way of falling into place att he right time.
Jodes.....how you going babe ??
myself, i am going ok....trying not think about dad esepcially tomorrow as that is when he finds out about treatment.....but other than that i am doing good.
to everyone else, a big HOWDY...**WAVES** at you all.
hey does anyone know why i can't change my mood ??? i used to be able to and now i can't.......blah.....this is driving me crazy.....why won;t my silly computer work how i want it to work.....kiya
Hi Mrzbaby, welcome. I'm so so very sorry for your loss. I had my TR done by woolcott too.Brilliant man I reckon!!
LOL KIya, no idea why you can't change anything either, sorry.
Oh how sad for your neighbour Em, sending some hugs your way.
Jodes, how are you holding up hun?
AFM, well Dh is away for a few days, family emergency, again ,getting sick of it all TBH.
& I've started leaking, grrrrrrr it's really revolting. I don't think anything is gonna happen, well I hope not anyway.
Oh Em Honey.....wish i was with you as well.....why are us women having such bad luck......what did we ever do wrong.... ..**hugs to your neighbour and you as well**...kiya
I feel silly cause I just want to cry for her but it wasn't even my baby. Why does this have to happen she didnt even get to see this beautiful world we live in,its like it was stolen from her. I just can't stop thinking about how sad she is right now. I guess it makes me think of my baby I lost which makes me even sader. Life is so unfair but in the same breath i thank god i have six health beautiful children.
Emm......sweetheart, don't for one minute think you are silly for wanting to cry....if you feel you need to cry, let it all out....remember this, you are a mum, you are a wonderful mum, and you have also felt what it is like to lose a child.....you know what your neighbour/friend is going through and you want to grieve with her.....it will also in some respects also bring some final closure to your little one, and with this you will be able to move on and also help with you deciding to have another bubba.....wish you well, and remember, it is ok to let it all out......**hugs**.....kiya
Thanks Kiya that was beautiful and all so very true. I would love to go and comfort her but it doesnt seem right I want to send flowers but that doesn't seem right either. These doctor's toy with our lives and play god abit to much for my liking these days. They told my neighbour at 28 wks that bub was very small only measuring 20wks and they would deliever her at 32wks cause babies seem to thrieve better in this situation outside of mum. All seemed fine after all that and bub was doing well. But they never did the c-section only to tell her if she made it to 36 wks they would do the c-section then to play it safe. I don't understand what happened and they didn't play it safe at all and now she has lost her miracle baby.
Hey Em....I was thinking the same......it is a quiet little room.....not much happening here at my end....still pottering along as normal.....cheers kiya
Hi Everyone.....just wanted to give you an update on dad....well as you know he had to go back today to find out what treatment etc because they were waiting for a test to come back on Tuesday which hadn't come back in time. .... well he has cancer in both lungs, under his rib area, in his esophagus and in his back.....he starts treatment next Thursday of tablets and needles....at the moment his oncologist does not think he needs to have chemo because she believes and how it looks even though it is aggressive it is and could be treatable with just the pills and needles......he is happy and when he called me was actually sitting down having his beer like usual.....he told me himself that he is going to fight this and not let it beat him.....i am so proud of him.....thanks everyone for being there when i needed it.....hugs to all nikki (kiya)
Thats awesome news Kiya thats he is prepared to fight this thing. Its gunna be a long road ahead but atleast you have each other for support.
Gee its a ghost town in here..................................
kiya, glad to hear about your dad.... our spirit can do more than we think.. i will pray for him....
hey storm, that doesn't sound good. how much longer do you have? i have had 2 hind leaks... and they always made me stay in hospital for fear of infection.
em, that would be heart renching. that would make me cry. don't feel bad... you are just a great person with a big heart. i am happy that you are thinking again. wish it was me. i am still cleaning the other house, but hopefully finish this week. things are still pretty much the same... i am still praying and i am still hopin that i will have another one of these days too.... sorry to hear about breah... they definately know when you rock them that they want it again hey... is she teethin? or are her ears ok? just some suggestions.. not sure if they will help.
onemore, hope you little girl is doin well.
Hey Luv im praying things change for the better soon darl, i think things can only get better from here on in. Breah is teething but shes doing ok she only has two. Once we did the controlled cry that night she has been heaps better.. Well next door had a memorial service at the house yesterday and i was invited but I stayed well away. So they came over and got me last night and said come over and have some Irish whiskey with us. So i went over and had afew drinks till 230am. They were so drunk but to be expected, she showed me these poems that they had read. One was called Hello mummy and the other was called Its ok daddy. I started reading this poem the mummy one first and i was in tears and by they second one i had to pull my T shirt up under my eyes,breath taking!!
Been rushed off my feet this week with the kids cause they have all had a virus but there on the mend now.
Hi LadiesSorry iv been MIA for a while trying to get babies out of my head but finding it difficult.Not to much going on my end,i have another cycle happening and im expecting another transfer around the 6th March and im so hoping this time my B*****Y Doc will allow 2 to be put in.I have 2 embies left so im really praying they both make the thaw and both get transfered but only time will tell i guess.With all the BFNs iv been getting its making me mad to keep going at this TTC path because i dont want to lose..lol
So as for my DD we have found a lovely spot for her wedding but theres a snag.....they can only get married if her DF loan gets approved and so far one bank has rejected them.Fingers crossed we will hear some good news on Friday.
Hi Mrsbaby....You know i have learnt with all the ups and downs that if you give up means you lost so keep going in the end you will win and be so proud of it.
Hi Mumof6.....OMG how sad for your neighbour....I really wish i had been there to support her and cry with her she really needs the extra support.I can imagine how she feels and i can asure you she will never get over what had happened.Its been months for me now and i still cry over my loss and i can never see a day going by were i will forget my baby boy its just way to painful.
Babe glad to hear your kids are on the mend...XX
Hi Luv....Babe i hope that oneday your dream comes true,you may suprise yourself one of these days...XX
Hi Kiya.....Oh Darl...I can only imagine how your feeling,your Dad is in my prayers please tell him that ok.How are you coping?
Hi Storm....Wow it sounds like your going to pop any minute....hmm i wish you all the best....HUGS
Hi Onemore....Babe hows your precious baby girl?i bet shes a absolute angel.
Well ladies im off to bed,will pop in again another time....HUGS
Dearmum....you can be MIA for as long as you want and need.....we will all be here when you return....i know it has been a hard slog with the FET's, but don't give up, not yet....If like you say both thaw out, get them put back in....it will if anything better your chances....wishing you the very best......bummer about your DD DF and not being able to get a loan for the wedding......things will work out there as well....i'm doing ok.....dad starts his treatment this Thursday....his oncologist wants to start him on a course of needles and tablets....she wants to hold off from the chemo on him for now as the option she is trying first has good results.....well time to go and make a cuppa.....hugs to all....kiya
HI Girls,
Well I too have been MIA.... Was admited back to hospital last thursday withr retained tissue?? from the D & C.... My bodu has been busym making more baby juice for the baby that isn't there anymore....arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgghh.
Apparently..This is where you girls come in ... arfet a reversal if you M/C you can have pblems with the bleeding afterwards....Anyone know fo this?
Anyhow must get me to be back on track then back to Baby dancing in May ( as going to be april but now thinking May might be better..
Take Care EM
. They were so drunk but to be expected, she showed me these poems that they had read. One was called Hello mummy and the other was called Its ok daddy. I started reading this poem the mummy one first and i was in tears and by they second one i had to pull my T shirt up under my eyes,breath taking!! 
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Sorry iv been MIA for a while trying to get babies out of my head but finding it difficult.Not to much going on my end,i have another cycle happening and im expecting another transfer around the 6th March and im so hoping this time my B*****Y Doc will allow 2 to be put in
in May ( as going to be april but now thinking May might be better..
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