Tubal Reversals #16

[kiya]

oh Mrzbaby.....you must be going through so much right now....take it easy and things will fall into place.....sorry i can't help you with a m/c after reversal....i haven't had a TR, but i have fall preg while having my TL twice and m/c both....because i have heavy AF the bleeding was the same just at different times.....take care and all the best....kiya

[bel78]

hi all been awhile since ive been on managed to do some catch up reading on here alot has gone on since last i was here, thinking of you guys who has had losses take it easy when the time is right everything will fall into place.

im scheduled for my tr in april with dr woolcott!!!! im excited but scared at the same time, have spoken with dr he seems very nice, but i have a fear of anesetic not that anything has happened in previous ops. can anyone inform me of what to expect with the op, i have read alot but an interested in your opinion since some of you guys have had this done. how painful? how long it took to get back to normal? i felt terrible after tl and expecting this to be the same, painful and horrible!

cheers guys

[Mumof8]

Hey Bel so excited for you. Its ok to be scared god only knows i was shighting myself to.
The fear of not being in control and not being awake to know what was going on. Sure i had had c-sections before but i was awake and felt in full control even tho I wasnt hehe. My T/R was done via key hole not sure how yours will be done. I went in at 7am in the morning and was home by 5pm that afternoon. The surgery took an hour 15minutes from memory and it all went well. I was in and out of sleep for a couple of hours then they sent me home. I felt every bump on the drive home i was ready to knock D/F out and was pretty bloated for afew days. The pain was definatly there and was uncumfy but it was ok cause it was for a good cause. The pain was nothing like my c-section so that was a plus. Good luck and hope it all goes well. Keep intouch

[Mumof8]

Oooops i forgot to say hi to all the girls! Hope everyone is doing well! xxxxxx

[kiya]

bel78.....wishing you the best of luck for your TR......everything will be fine and you will come out of it perfectly fine.....just take your time after it is done and then start doing your baby dance....lol.....cheers kiya

[dearmum]

Hi LadiesWell just a update on me again...lol
Well im having BTs everyday to check if i have "Od" my levels are going up slowly they are at 600 today and they want them at 1000 so a few days and i should "O" and transfer either late next week or early the week after.
I was so B***Dy mad today you know how i wanted 2 transfered back well i got a NO WAY again from my doc GRRR.Yeh my clinic asked him and he said no way she has kids and fell pregnant on her first go blah blah blah i really dont know whats his problem i mean he is against twin pregnancies ummm i prefere a twin pregnancy compared to none geez iv had 2 FET with BFN and i only have 2 bubs left whats wrong just to put them both in.Gosh i have no power over my own embies.
Theres a catch aswell if i change clinics i would be lucky and be able to transfer 2 at a time but the new clinics expect $6000 up front were my clinic you pay after your all finish and you can pay it off slowly.So because i dont have the $$$$ up front im stuck with putting up with this Dic of a doc.I have booked another lady doc at the same clinic but i cant get in until August ahhhhh.
Yeh im really sick of this IVF rollercoaster but its hard to get off.
I wish i had done a TR that way i have both but now my funds are gone.If i can find a doc that will go to a public hospital to do the TR i will go for that.

Sorry for all this rambling....
How is everyone?

Kiya send my hugs to your Dad ok,hope your going ok....
XXJodie

[mrzbaby]

hi all been awhile since ive been on managed to do some catch up reading on here alot has gone on since last i was here, thinking of you guys who has had losses take it easy when the time is right everything will fall into place.

im scheduled for my tr in april with dr woolcott!!!! im excited but scared at the same time, have spoken with dr he seems very nice, but i have a fear of anesetic not that anything has happened in previous ops. can anyone inform me of what to expect with the op, i have read alot but an interested in your opinion since some of you guys have had this done. how painful? how long it took to get back to normal? i felt terrible after tl and expecting this to be the same, painful and horrible!

cheers guys

Hi I had byTR done by Dr Woolcott and he is awesome he anthestist is just as awesome and i highly recommend both. Your can ring Dr woolcotts rooms and ask for the anth Drs number and have a chat to him...I did cause i was just as scared!!!
As for pain it is not too bad and they look after you really well the most important part is a day or two after isd to wak around. Both drs will tell you this. I had a bit of a sore throat from the anths but apart from that i was ok....although I was lucky to be the 1 in 200 that got the heamatoma afterwards but hey Dr woolcoot looked after me even though i did not live there ( but i did have the benefit of my Ob /gyno up here being one of his good friends!)

Relax get ready and the other thing i most importantly reccommend s not to try for a few months give those tubes more than enough time to heal after to op as you don't wanat to increase the risk of a tubal. I had mine don last August and wedid not start trying till Nov ( but i didn't O ) but struck luck in Dec ( yes you will see my angel has dieds but not as a result of any of this ) and as soon as AF comes back (please please please hurry up quick AF!!! bet you don't see many women begging for it to come !!)
we will be baby dancing big time.


********* Start your Blackmores conception gold / foltate / whatever other vitamins you take for pre conception NOW before the op and get you Darling man to take Menevit as well sperm health like you take for pre conception his is just as important ***********

Then go dance when you get the OK.
Good luck

Regards EM

[bel78]

thanx mrzbaby,

i will have a talk to anes, it is so encouraging to talk to gals who have been thru this before thankyou, unfortunatly hubby does not want anymore bubs, i on the other hand are feeling quit clucky and would really like another, getting tr done to feel normal again, hope im doing the right thing hate operations but feel more confident with the doc i have chosen.

so sorry for your loss, hope everything turns out for you the way you want it to

godbless bel78

[Mumof8]

Oh my god girls can you believe my little princess is going to have her first birthday in 8 weeks. How the hell did that happen where did that time go. With Breah's first birthday fast approching I can't stop thinking about my little angel Breah's twin. I have found myself in tears to many times this week but I think in away its a good thing. Im going to make her a number one cake. Im going to put one candle and 2 sparklers on the cake one for Breah and one for her twin. Noone will realize what it means but i wanted to do something little without making it a big deal cause i dont want people to think im weird or anything.
Take it easy girls xxx

[dearmum]

Hi Mumof6Oh you really have touched my heart,i say good on ya for thinking of the lost twin i know i would be feeling just like you
Im going to visit my baby boy on his birthday,i dont know if i can bring my kids or my DH coz i hate crying in front of them but i know they will wont to come.I know im going to cry my head off and i just dont know what to say to him but i know i need to see him.Ahh this whole IVF has been such a rollercoaster and one that i dont want to be on forever.
Your baby Breah remindes me so much of my Shaheed coz i got my BFP not long after you had Breah.I wish i was there with you.XX

[Mumof8]

Dearmum....your fet are they just all natural or do you use the crinone(the stuff you insert) to help make the embryo stick??

[onemore]

Hi girls, sorry I`ve been mia for a while.... forgot how busy you get with a new baby
Maddison is doing really well, cant believe she is 4 weeks 4 days old, it has gone so fast.

mrzbaby - so sorry to hear of your loss, I also lost my first baby after t/r I was 9 weeks.
I got my first period 6 weeks after that. Every woman is different and I hope you dont have to wait too long to get bd`ing again. I m/c in Nov 07 and I fell pg again in May 08 and our little girl was born on Jan 29th 09. Oh and I did`nt have any probs with bleeding after, so cant help you there sorry.

Best of luck with the op bel, you will be just fine....

Thinking of you Dearmum

Well bub is waking and I`ve got tea going so I better finish up.

Take care

[dearmum]

Hi LadiesWell i have a transfer again on Sunday so here we go again,i have a doc appt today to try and convince the bugger to transfer my last 2 embies so next time i can go onto a fresh cycle,but with his strick mentality its going to be tough.

Hi Mumof6......Yeh i have been having totally natural FET cycles,but this cycle i have requested progestrone so will have to see the difference.I have heard now down the track that Crinone helps with the blood flo and helps support pregnancies and i really dont know why my D**K head Doctor didnt put me on them before because i feel with my first FET i had a chemical pregnancy coz my levels were there but they dropped off BUT if they had given me some sort of support i think that pregnancy could have made it.
Oh well you learn as you go along i guess.
How did the birthday go?

Hi Onemore.....Wow yeh time sure has flown by,sounds like your a happy busy mum.Will that be all for you or onemore?

Hi Kiya.....Babe how are you going?

Hi Storm.....Hows things your side?Have you had bubs yet?

Well i need to keep it quick as i have to drop my kids to school so take care guys and i will be back again soon.

[Mumof8]

Dearmum i think all of what you are saying is a good idea. I had crinone with Breah which is very much the same as what you had on your first cycle. Some doctors have no idea do they.Breahs birthday is still afew weeks off yet but my son is a big 3 today. Breah is to be baptised on the 15th March so we have also asked the minster to light 2 candle in memory but no words to be said. I think its good for me cause i really seem to be struggling with the loss but only lately. I dont know why maybe I just didnt deal with it properly in the first place. Hope the appt went well today xxx

[Mumof8]

Hmm my post from hours ago wouldnt show!!!!Weird

[kiya]

thats really weird mumof6......strange things are happening with here at the moment....kiya

[mrzbaby]

Hi all,
Well where do I begin???

Tomorrow I am off for my 3rd ...yes 3rd D&C in 3 weeks! over it over itover it. Certainly feeling like I shouldn't be buying a lottery ticket at the moment!

Went to see my gyno after I had my ultrasound and it appears as though the clot I assumed they took out at my 2nd D&C has nearly doubled in size in the last week.

They also gave me the disc of my last ultrasound the one where we discovered our angel had died so today has just been crappy crappy actually it has been plain #$%@!.

I have been having 'after birth ' pains ( thats what the midwife called them in hosp) that just don't seem to go away to the point I now have not slept for 36hours becuase of the pain!!!! Hence my ramblings...

I am trying to remain positive but feeling really angry that this just cant seem to end at the moment.
When I left hospital on the 1st March I wlaked out with confidence asaying start of a new month was the start of happy endings but now I have to have this AGAIN

Sorry feeling Very Very sorry for myself.

Happy to be seeing all the BFP, I know one day I will have our forever baby.

Take care ladies,
Em

[kiya]

mrszbaby....you poor ...poor thing....my heart sure does go out to you.....darl things will clear up and you will be able to start doing the baby mumba....LOL....it is probably your body telling you to rest, let it heal and then you can start......**hugs**...kiya