Google 'natural therapies directory' - I find all sorts of practitioners in my area this way It's a pretty comprehensive directory for hundreds of health modalities and you punch in your postcode or town (can't remember which). Then it's a matter of giving them a call and asking them about what they do and getting a feel for them.
I agree - in our male oriented world, sex is paramount and when it can't be delivered it's considered 'deviant' and abnormal, instead of accommodating and encouraging other forms of intimacy whilst the problem is worked through. How many doctors give you a label for what you have and then say, "so, it's really important you work on other aspects of intimacy for your wellbeing and the wellbeing of the relationship, here are some recommendations for people to see..."? Nuh! Same when you have a baby, go for your check ups and say you're not sure about having sex just yet, or you are too tired from caregiving to provide sexual intercourse and they say "oh, there's no medical impediment, it's important for your relationship to get sex back on track and here's what you can do to get back into it for your partner asap". For some reason, whilst they're looking at your bits, they forget they're attached to a real person, cos that person is a woman and what kind of woman doesn't want to have, or experiences pain during sex? I mean, of course you'd like to do it again, it feels nice when it's working right - as if you didn't already miss it!
Sorry, I'm ranting. I am not saying it's a conspiracy, it's just that women's sexual wellbeing seems like such an afterthought, lately. So, I'm questioning assumptions, again!
Like I said, my former GF received so little support for her condition that she beat herself up for it and sabotaged her own marriage (among other reasons, but this was a big player - lap was supposed to 'cure' her, too).
Anyway, *getting off soapbox now