GRR why cant my body just suck it up!!!

[squidipa]

Mods move me if ya want or need be it wasnt sure where to put this under medical boohoo or 2nd trimester.

i am 17 weeks pregnant and i am sore and uncomfortable and prolapsing. Ive been here before but it was much later on and i have had my uterus lifted once before 7.5 years ago. Is this whats its gonna be like from now on. Im so disapointed in my body and i must admit im frightened of the health risks, should i be putting myself on bed rest? i guess i need medical advice next antenatal is on 15th October next scan day is 14th October my physio is a while away about 4 weeks.

I know its not in my head i can see it bulging out of my woohoo and i have been through this before so i am experienced in knowing what i am seeing down there.

GRR why cant my body just suck it up literally

[Arimeh]

I don't have any answers for you - but here is a

Can you get in earlier with another physio?

[diannescruffy]

Big from me too. Wish I had some advice. Maybe try and ring a midwife at your hospital.

Regards,
Dianne

[squidipa]

Big from me too. Wish I had some advice. Maybe try and ring a midwife at your hospital.

Regards,
Dianne

problem is with out sounding like i dont want help, they always say well there nothing we can do, rest up. More or less suck it up. I have even been told well if you knew you were prone to it why get pregnant suck it up!

a support belt can help stablize my pelvis as i have SPD but it doesn't help with the relaxed ligaments causing the prolaps. Plus a support belt is really uncomfortable and hurts to wear.

i wonder at times if i was ever ment to have kids.

[Arimeh]

Of course you were meant to have kids!!!!

I have SPD too and I don't wear my support belt either - it digs into my c-section scar and is too painful

[squidipa]

Of course you were meant to have kids!!!!

I have SPD too and I don't wear my support belt either - it digs into my c-section scar and is too painful

you said it sweet!!!!, and being BIGGER as i am it scrunches in places and can leave nasty marks that get sore too....i also find in orgenancy i can become allergic to elastic. But whats worse is what you said the digging into the scar, Plus my nerves are a little funny this time round in pregnancy.

Just got up and i feel like i have a large lumpy hard piece of toilet paper in my nickers obviously i dont. hard and lumpy like a tissue going through the washing machine.

Thanks mel for you hug. I been a bit emotional about all this i had a ruff trot with Josiah's pregnancy with this and its just getting me down.

thanks diannescruffy for you huggle too.

[Footsteps]

no advice just massive hugs.
i am in pain 24/7 so i understand 100%.
its hard when you arent getting support or help from your care providers and its physically and emotionally draining.
sorry if im babbling i just wish there was something that could be done for you.
you are meant to have kids hun...its just a painful time to get there.
i hope you can get something that helps.
take care hun xxx
p.s i think the most insulting thing a doctor can do is tell you to suck it up and put up with it...they are not the ones that have to live with it.xx

[squidipa]

no advice just massive hugs.
i am in pain 24/7 so i understand 100%.
its hard when you arent getting support or help from your care providers and its physically and emotionally draining.
sorry if im babbling i just wish there was something that could be done for you.
you are meant to have kids hun...its just a painful time to get there.
i hope you can get something that helps.
take care hun xxx
p.s i think the most insulting thing a doctor can do is tell you to suck it up and put up with it...they are not the ones that have to live with it.xx

[squidipa]

p.s i think the most insulting thing a doctor can do is tell you to suck it up and put up with it...they are not the ones that have to live with it.xx

i do agree.!!!

[Footsteps]

if you every want to talk pm me.
i hope you get some relief hun i really do.
take care xxx

[squidipa]

My update:

still feeling very prolaped actually i think its worse now sorry TMI doing a stool i feel like all the bodys natural pushing power is pushing all my private parts out and its stopping the poop from exiting Gonna take extra fiber to help hopefully i dont take to much that would be my luck so i have to layer up some toilet paper on my hand and push up against my woohoo so the poo can come out with out my woohoo feeling like its gonna tear from pressure this is all with out me pushing this is just the body pushing naturally i try not to push im lucky i normally can poop pretty quickly im not a 20 min pooper i am usually done in 1 minute maybe 2.

no have not seen dr i guess i cause ive been here done that sorta of a thing and have no faith in drs these days they say im a walking problem pretty much. I have had this issue before but i was like 30+ weeks pregnant not 18

will be mentioning it on 15th with the dr i see at hospital but not up for a male to inspect me IYKWIM plus hubbie would strangle them for even looking hehehe very jealous but loveable.

[squidipa]

back from dr and as for prolaps nothing they can do Bed rest here they said. due to prolaps and low pappa I was told before 26 weeks its not gonna have a good ending at all so hoping on reaching that point. I guess the low pappa thing didnt seem real till yesterday booking me in for more scans and today discussing things with dr.