Cassius2 - i am not sure if they are connected, since i had my chat with 'the watcher' he seems to have backed right off, i can feel him there and it's still a little creepy but it's from a distance, no more playing with Ava at the window.. thank god!
Since he has moved away i feel 'friendly' back in the house, only ever at night and i think it's a lady and she doesn't want to be seen, she doesn't make herself known to me and keeps her distance but i feel at peace.

I have this strange feeling that 'the watcher' is not ALLOWED in the house, maybe this is why he seemed to determined to watch us, maybe they were a couple or separated couple or something she got the house, he didn't but he feels connected to it and possibly to myself and DD with her birth?

maybe i am just making crazy things up in my PG brain... lol

Re: Ava it mainly seems to be at night, she doesn't seem to have an issue with day sleeps, once or twice a week she might do short sleeps but otherwise it's normally 1 long one for 1-2hrs or 2 shorter ones for about an hour each, if not longer.
I think one of her teeth is nearly through so just hoping it's that!

bubno.3 - thanks very much, am hoping #2 doesn't want to make the same kind of entrance as her sister!
Yeah i am always interested in this kind of stuff, and have SEEN ghosts before but this 'pair' intrigue me... what is there interest in me or DD? and why no interest in DP?