Heed BG's and your "Friendlies" advice darl! That sounds concerning. It reminds me of what happened to my mum. She always used to fret about me living in Fitzroy (a seedy part of inner Melbourne) she kept saying how much crime there was etc. Not long after one of her lectures HER house was broken into... or I should say "walked into". She lived near a tiny community of a few hundred people on a farmlet of her own.... her nearest neighbour was about 2 km away. So she was quite isolated but she thought she was safer out there than i was. She never locked up either. I'm not trying to scare you... just share a similar story. She kept dogs after that which helped a lot.

I read your birthstory too... I jad forgotteon but I'd read it soon after you posted it. Amazing and really well written. It does give a little insight as to why the woman "Friendly" might feel drawn to protect you. I still think that both spirits should be helped to move on... but of course that's up to you to pursue. Makes very interesting reading in the meantime